My child applied and has been accepted to every school she applied to. She also applied to several merit based scholarships and has not been a selected recipient. We were hoping scholarships will help us refine her selection. How do we help her narrow down her choice ?

Hi Therese, has she gotten financial aid offers from the colleges?  You need to compare these offers and see what your family can afford.  In the meantime, there are lots of scholarships with deadlines that have not yet passed, so encourage your daughter to apply for as many as she possibly can.